You are a wonderful person. Nobody is perfect or knows everything they are supposed to know. Everyone faces challenges in life. Some are manageable, but some are not. Do you feel shame in asking for help?
Asking for help is not a sign of weakness. You may fear asking for help because others will consider you weak. Asking for help shows you are strong, able to communicate, and capable of solving your problems. Nobody can solve all their problems alone. People limit themselves to performing within their capacity and avoid the opportunity for improvement. Accepting help for situations beyond your limits helps you achieve higher levels and improve your quality of life. Perfection is not the result of all human endeavors.
You are the one hurting when you are limiting yourself to an inferior job, living in substandard conditions, or remaining unsatisfied living. If you’re not caring about your life, nobody else will. Come out of the cocoon stage to win challenges in your life. Your problems can be physical, emotional, or social. Your responsibility is to get the necessary help and overcome it. Once you reach the solution, nobody cares how you achieve that stage; you are the winner, that’s it.
What does it mean when unable to find the required help you were seeking? Maybe you are struggling with physical or psychological weakness, but no suitable support is available. Believe God will never let you down, whatever may happen. When you are not getting the help you want, God invested the capacity to overcome the problem in you, and you will be able to solve it. When problems are beyond your capability, God wants you to research the solution and help others suffering from that problem. God wants to make you worth much more than you count on or teach you something you can’t learn in another way.
In short, seeking help is not a sign of weakness but strength and courage to face the realities of life. When you seek assistance, you are walking towards the destination of what you are preparing to experience. When you have a desire and willingness to accept challenges for a positive outcome, you will get there soon.
Inspire you to seek help for your problems and rise to the highest you can reach when you do not have the resources to resolve them.
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Asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness , it’s a sign of strength and courage