Love is the foundation of the universe. Most people complain that they don’t get enough love in their lives. Do you think so? How Much Love Is Really Necessary?
Love, the most tenderly expressed human emotion, unfortunately, cannot be measured. Children and adults expect a lot of love, but in reality, they can only absorb a limited amount of high-quality love. You may not realize how much love you need when you seek love from many important people in your life. One should be adept at experiencing all the love and affection received in daily life. Love that is expressed or received in excess of what is needed becomes cheap. When you consider the quality of love needed to sustain your life, you can easily find and obtain it from those around you.
First, you receive unconditional love from God from the day you were formed in your mother’s womb. This divine love is forever available even if you don’t notice it. Second, you must have unconditional love for yourself. Those who love themselves understand its value and share it with others. Modern society portrays the term self-love as selfcare, but this is essential to your survival. When you love yourself, you take care of your health and happiness and develop a positive mindset. Only such people can love others unconditionally. Next, your spouse, children, parents, siblings, friends, and society give you their share of love. How much more love do you need? When you realize the value of the love you receive, you will realize that it is enough and more.
Love others as you love yourself. Love your life partner because they are a part of you. Love your children as much as they need. Loving unconditionally doesn’t mean you only live for your significant other. Unconditional love doesn’t mean you have to buy everything your family members ask for. Money is not a measure of the quality of love. Love is worth more than money. Your primary focus should be on yourself. The same goes for others. In any case, if someone does not meet your expectations of love, you must understand that they have their own preferences. A lot of online media and negative propaganda portray love in the world as unreliable. All quality love should be given with a view to using it effectively, not abusing it. There are many who yearn for love but never find it.
You are encouraged to experience and share unconditional love in abundance.
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LOVE come in different forms as per Gary Chapman’s 5 love Languages physical touch,acts of service, words of affirmation ,gifts If a child in a dysfunctional household grew up never hearing praise, then as an adult she may crave ‘words of affirmation’ from her romantic partner,” she says. “Conversely, if a child in a functional household grew up with his lunches consistently packed and laundry consistently done, then as an adult he may crave the same ‘acts of service’ from his partner that made him feel loved when he was young.” Everyone has their own way of showing the type of love language they have. Love language basically is the language of love in the form of actions, behaviors, and attitudes that make a person feel valued and loved.
The presence of a love language is considered very crucial because it can make you and your loved ones understand each other in-depth and better.It is important that the sender speaks the love language of the recipient. So what’s your love language?
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Focusing too much of your energy on one person is not true love. Spending your time intensely on someone else’s needs and desires result in neglecting yourself. It can be overwhelming too to the person you love. Everyone needs their space. If you are so in love that you can’t bear to be apart from them, then that may not be a sign of healthy love. You feel that you lose yourself because you prioritize others needs more than all of your needs. Loving someone does not always mean accepting all of their behaviors especially if they are harmful to you.