Parents are not specially trained to raise children. Many children complain that they were not raised well. How much truth is there in this?
Children do not get their parents according to their demands. Parents do not get the children they pray for. When God decide to give birth to a child, He chooses two people who can raise that child as parents.
It is the responsibility of parents to teach and train a child to live as best as they can. Parents have the right to raise only the children.
It is not appropriate for someone to treat their children as their own, over-love them, control them, possess them, prevent them from doing what they can do, or try to raise them in ways they cannot. By doing the opposite, many children may not grow up to be mature and successful in life.
Man doesn’t forget the habits of his youth.
Children needs to be train well.
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Spend time with kids so they understand the importance of relationships
Do not belittle them
Praise even for the smallest achievements
Be good role model
Help them to identify their strengths and weaknesses
Do not set unrealistic expectations
Let them realize you may not agree with them always, but your love is unconditional
Be consistent with discipline
Accept the imperfections
Don’t expect them to be ” a mini me”
Have realistic expectations, do not expect to be perfect
Acknowledge positive behaviors, ability to handle problems
Encourage talents, celebrate
accomplishments .
Foster Independence, respect personal space
Listen, develop trust
Hug them