No matter how small the separation, it is sad. Some people can get back to normal after a few days, others after a few months. But few people are not able to get rid of the sadness of longing even after years. Are you like that?
We were alone when we were born, and we will be alone when we die. It is absolutely necessary to have many relationships and associations during life. Are any of these relationships permanent? Oh No. All relationships are temporary and so is our worldly life. Then let’s see why longings create a crisis for some people.
Not everyone realizes that our lives are more important than our relationships. If we are born on this earth we are destined to live till we die. We must be committed to happily complete this life that we have received without asking for it. Certain events in life must not lead us to lose the happiness we have received.
Joys, sorrows, separations, defeats and victories are all part of life. Why is only separation disturbing us for a long time? That’s not right at all. Any grief should end after its appropriate time. Objects, names and places that evoke memories of separated persons should be kept out of sight as much as possible. A lot of heartache is suicidal.
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