Disputes are inevitable in our lives. Some accept failure many times. Others insist on winning all the time. The argument can be treated as successful only when you win the other person. How is your experience?
Some may argue that there can be no arguments without reason. There will always be differences in the opinions and interests of two individuals. So, you may think there is no point in arguing. If we respect each other and accept our differences, there is no room for conflict, right? The dispute escalates when one person tries to win.
There is only one truth in everything happening in this world. There are chances two opinions for someone beating the mother. The truth in this matter will be only one. The same is true of disputes arising in marital relationships and other personal relationships. What is the solution? When you are willing to understand and accept your mistakes, listen carefully and understand the arguments of others, respect each other, and forgive and love each other, there will be complete victory in any dispute. If you sincerely want the truth to prevail without insisting that your arguments should win, the point is that both parties should win. In short, real success lies in winning the other person.
Encourage you to have complete success in your disputes.
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